US EditionDear Abby: Grandma Moved Closer to Grandkids, but Still Gets Ignored
AUG 2 – A grandparent moved 2,000 miles to be closer but feels overlooked compared to the daughter-in-law's parents despite efforts to bond with grandchildren.
- After moving 2,000 miles closer to family, the grandparent described the relocation as a 'terrible mistake' but still values the effort to be involved, despite regret.
- Driven by past travel limits, the grandparent chose relocation to be a more involved grandparent, believing the sacrifice was worthwhile.
- Despite efforts, the daughter-in-law's parents receive outings and photos, while no one takes pictures of the grandparent during the same activities.
- The grandparent now feels sick to their stomach daily and finds interactions awkward, embarrassing and belittling when rushed, the grandparent said.
- Advice suggests family counseling if the son and daughter-in-law are willing, and to discuss concerns directly with the son.
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Dear Abby: I moved closer to my grandchildren, but I feel further from them
DEAR ABBY: I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren. In the past, I have always noticed my son and daughter-in-law treated the other grandparents better. They roll out the red carpet for my daughter-in-law’s parents. They arrange outings with them, take photos and post the special grandchild-grandparent moments on Facebook. No one takes photos of me doing the same things with the grandchild…
Dear Abby: My daughter-in-law wants only her parents to have a special relationship with the grandkids
DEAR ABBY: I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren. In the past, I have always noticed my son and daughter-in-law treated the other grandparents better. They roll out the red carpet for my daughter-in-law’s parents. They arrange outings with them, take photos and post the special grandchild-grandparent moments on Facebook. No one takes photos of me doing the same things with the grandchild…
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