The author lives with her daughter and her family in a farm in Oregon.Courtesy of the authorMy husband and I retired to our Oregon farm full time.We now share the farmhouse with our daughter, son-in-law, and grandson.Multi-generational living has brought both chaos and deep joy.My husband and I bought our farm in Banks, Oregon, 25 miles outside Portland, in 2017. From the start, we dreamed of retiring there and envisioned multiple generations of…