Help Me Hera: How do I help a friend who’s stuck in a permanent rut?

Help Me Hera: How do I help a friend who’s stuck in a permanent rut?

Every time I visit him, he’s under a dark cloud. How do I stop feeling sorry for him? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz Dear Hera, I have a friend who is stuck in a job he hates, with the same rotating cast of insecurities, still living with parents who have spent their lives dragging him down. He lives in the small town where we grew up. Five years after we left school I felt worried for him, 10 years after we left…