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Asking Eric: What’s the Kindest Way to End a Friendship?

A writer shares advice on ending draining friendships with kindness while navigating family privacy concerns involving a security camera at their parents' home.

  • Recently, a longtime friend wrote to R. Eric Thomas, advice columnist, asking for guidance on ending several long-term friendships to prioritize the writer's family.
  • Through therapy the writer became more aware of emotional reactions around certain people, noticing the friends who speak poorly of others erode trust and lack friendship chemistry.
  • After scaling back attendance, the writer says friends who continue to invite the writer seem confused, while other long-term friendships that rejuvenate the writer leave them feeling seen and eager.
  • Thomas advised that a direct, definitive conversation may be kinder than silent withdrawal, recommending gratitude and respect to ease the friends who will have to mourn the relationship.
  • With limited time, the writer wants to focus on the writer's family and joyful relationships, though ending ties with longstanding friends who shared major life events brings guilt.
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Letter writer seeks kindest way to end friendship

Dear Eric: What is the kindest way to end friendships?In the past, I have prided myself on being a good, loyal friend and therefore have friendships that last a very long time, some spanning decades now. However, through therapy, I…

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Asking Eric: Letter writer seeks the kindest way to end a friendship

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The Baltimore Sun broke the news in Baltimore, United States on Tuesday, January 13, 2026.
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