What are LAT relationships, and why are some LGBTQ+ couples choosing them?

What are LAT relationships, and why are some LGBTQ+ couples choosing them?

Sarah Paulson has a four-word relationship hack: “We don’t live together.” When the American Horror Story star told the SmartLess podcast in May 2024 that she and longtime partner Holland Taylor “spend plenty of time together, but we don’t live in the same house,” queer Twitter hailed it as the ultimate blueprint for keeping the spark alive without sharing a bathroom.That setup has a name — living-apart-together (LAT) — and, far from being a cel…