This conversation was a kind of test. "It turns out I'm codependent"

"My husband spent a lot of time trying to make sure that I wouldn't accidentally detect his drinking. I'm talking about strong alcohol here, because he still treated beer like a regular drink. And then the verbal aggression started. He would say that I was nagging him, that I should leave him alone, that I should leave him alone. Over time, he lost control, he started wetting the bed, and not only at night, and vomiting. It was such destructive …