My husband had kids when we met and didn't want to have more with me. It took time, but I'm happy with the family we have.

My husband had kids when we met and didn't want to have more with me. It took time, but I'm happy with the family we have.

The author (not pictured), didn't expect to not have biological children. Life had other plans for her. Getty ImagesIt took time for me to find the person I wanted to spend my life and create a family with.I fell in love with an older man who already had children and learned he didn't want to have more. I've formed strong bonds with my husband's family and grandchildren and I love the life we have.I didn't actively choose not to have children. I…