I've Been Having An Affair For 5 Years. Should I Tell My Girlfriend?

I've Been Having An Affair For 5 Years. Should I Tell My Girlfriend?

Bustle; StocksyQ: I've been having an affair for five years. When we met, my affair partner was in a troubled marriage, I was in a happy relationship, and we both had an unfulfilled need for a more active and BDSM-focused sex life. I appreciate that's in no way an excuse, and I know this makes me a terrible person. Over the past year, my affair partner got divorced, fell in love with someone else, and broke things off with me. I was in love with…