No doubt many grandmothers will want to scold us, but the truth is, soap isn't going to destroy your cast iron pans.For many Southern cooks, the greatest inheritance from a grandmother or beloved aunt is a well-seasoned cast iron pan collection. Well-aged cast iron pans are truly a treasure. The nonstick surface that develops over years of use is invaluable, and not easy to reproduce.Older dish soaps were made with lye, which would strip seasoni…