Asking Eric: How to address my husband’s dismissive argument tactic

Asking Eric: When we fight he says, ‘You just look for reasons to be mad’ ... it’s so demeaning

And it relieves him from responsibility: because if my grievances are simply imaginary, he doesn’t need to do anything. What's your advice?

Asking Eric: How to address my husband’s dismissive argument tactic

Dear Eric: When my husband and I disagree, the fight often comes down to him saying, “You just look for reasons to be mad at me.”