What is a ‘lesbian top?’ LGBTQ+ sex experts explain and give tips on topping

What is a ‘lesbian top?’ LGBTQ+ sex experts explain and give tips on topping

The terms topping and bottoming usually come up in two contexts: when talking about gay sex or in the context of a BDSM Dom/sub relationship. In the simplest terms, topping = giving or penetrating, and bottoming = receiving or being penetrated. But there are tops and bottoms in lesbian sex, too. For lesbians, where oral is a big component of your sex life, the top/bottom dynamic may always be present when you take your clothes off, or may just c…