As a Straight Ally for LGBTQ Jews, I’ve Learned that Support Has to Be Seen

Visible allyship: Why LGBTQ+ Jews shouldn't have to choose between their identities

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned from working at JQY is that allyship cannot be assumed. It has to be visible.

As a straight ally for LGBTQ Jews, I’ve learned that support has to be seen

Every June, rainbow flags appear, organizations post messages celebrating Pride Month and communities reaffirm their commitment to inclusion and celebration of LGBTQ identity. Those gestures matter. But for too many LGBTQ Jews, especially those raised in Orthodox spaces, Pride Month can also raise a painful question: Am I actually welcome here? As a straight ally working for JQY (Jewish Queer Youth), an LGBTQ Jewish mental health organization, I…