It's the oldest seaside resort in the U.S.Victorian houses in Cape May, New Jersey.Credit: Walter Bibikow/Getty ImagesWhile the words “Jersey Shore” may bring to mind images of fist-pumping and club music, this area of the Garden State has a lot more to offer along its miles of sandy beaches. The reality television show that brought attention to the state in 2009 failed to mention the countless wholesome beach towns dotting the coastline. Cape M…