Small Talk Surprises: Nine Experiments Show 'Boring' Topics Feel More Enjoyable
Researchers found that 1,800 participants in nine experiments enjoyed live chats more than they expected, even when the topic seemed boring.
- On Monday, a study in the Journal of Social Psychology led by Elizabeth Trinh revealed that people consistently underestimate how enjoyable casual conversations can be. Researchers at Cornell University conducted nine experiments with 1,800 participants.
- Trinh, a doctoral student at the University of Michigan, said, "We tend to assume that if a topic sounds dull, the conversation will be dull too." By avoiding these discussions, people miss opportunities for social connection that support well-being.
- "What really drives enjoyment is engagement," Trinh said. Listening, questioning, and sharing personal details can make mundane topics meaningful, regardless of whether participants or researchers chose the subject.
- Cellphones often hinder these interactions, noted Gillian Sandstrom, an associate professor at the University of Sussex. People may miss social cues while scrolling, overlooking chances to connect with strangers on the bus or at coffee shops.
- Nadav Klein, an associate professor at INSEAD, suggested that focusing on open-ended questions and shared experiences can help people overcome hesitation and cultivate connections. He advises starting conversations without overthinking whether the topic will be interesting.
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