Right Fight, Wrong Way: How good intentions can backfire — Tara Aisida

Right Fight, Wrong Way: How good intentions can backfire — Tara Aisida

There’s a Yoruba saying, ká já rè—roughly translated as “fight guiltless” or “be justified.” It’s a philosophy I’ve carried into my relationships with people. I’m not one to instigate conflict—in fact, I avoid confrontations whenever I can. But when they happen, I want to emerge with both my dignity and my conscience intact. Over time, I’ve learned that how one fights is just as important as why. A just cause handled recklessly can crumble into…