A Cleveland, Oklahoma, family says they lost everything in the March 2025 wildfires and later discovered their mortgage lender had stopped paying their homeowners' insurance without telling them.David Dekker and his wife, Cassandra, have lived outside of Cleveland for 17 years, surviving their fair share of close calls with fires. But March 14, 2025, was different.WATCH: 'IT'S A CONSTANT REMINDER': Cleveland family struggling to rebuild after 20…