I traded my weekends in the Hamptons for some great times in Madison, Connecticut.Allison TibaldiFor years, I spent hours stuck in traffic driving to the Hamptons from my home in New York City.Eventually, I got fed up and started spending weekends in Madison, a coastal town in Connecticut.Madison's beautiful beaches and charming downtown area offer lots to do without huge crowds.I spent decades vacationing in the Hamptons, but eventually got tir…