The author (not pictured) works remotely and has a four-day workweek, which allows him to spend more time with his family.hobo_018/Getty ImagesI've turned down opportunities in my company for a four-day workweek.On the side, I've built a freelance career. Doing this has allowed me to spend time with my kids.People at my company don't understand, but it's what's right for me.When my wife and I moved from Calgary to Nelson, British Columbia, in 20…