How to Succeed and Make It Big in Life

The Dirty Truth About Success Nobody Talks About

The myth of meritocracy runs deep, especially in Western culture. We’re told that success is earned through grit, talent, and perseverance. This touches the paradox at the heart of the American Dream — the myth of pure meritocracy vs. the messy reality of randomness, timing, and serendipity. It is sometimes called “luck.” The quiet dirty secret is that while we can’t control luck, we can increase our surface area for it. 7 ways to increase your …

How to Succeed and Make It Big in Life

Not a dream. A decision. We all want to make it big in life, don’t we? That’s the easy part. Wanting it is simple. But showing up every day, especially when no one’s watching or cheering you on, that’s the tough bit. Luck fades. Connections come and go. But grit, consistency, and focus through the boring days? That’s what builds something real. If you’ve been feeling stuck while everyone else seems to be moving forward, take a second. Be honest …