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Asking Eric: How Do I Deal with My Elderly Mother’s Increasing Rambling?

Advice columnist R. Eric Thomas suggests steering conversations and using brief avoidance to handle daily rambling calls from elderly mothers who seek connection.

  • Facing daily calls and a longstanding invitation rift, the reader sought guidance about her 84-year-old mother's frequent rambling and her brother-in-law stopping invitations a few years ago.
  • The mother's active social circle helps explain why her calls are long and detailed, as the reader's mother, age 84, speaks daily about people her friends know .
  • Columnist R. Eric Thomas, advice columnist , suggests the reader steer her 84-year-old mother's calls with leading questions and express enjoyment to ease frustration.
  • The columnist suggests either a direct conversation with the brother-in-law or letting the husband invite his sibling, warning that an unyielding refusal will harm the marriage as her husband insists on inviting his only sibling.
  • Short of agreement, the reader reports being exhausted by repeated arguments and sometimes copes with her 84-year-old mother's long calls by reading or pulling the phone away.
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Asking Eric: Mother’s rambling tests patience

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The Baltimore Sun broke the news in Baltimore, United States on Sunday, January 11, 2026.
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