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Asking Eric: My Friends in My HOA Shunned Me for Bringing Issues to Our Board
Questions over unaccounted HOA finances and ignored transparency offers have fractured a decade-long core group of homeowners, causing social rifts and strained friendships.
- For years, a core HOA social group remained close, but the letter-writer organized a group of owners to press the board, prompting friends to shun them.
- Lately, HOA upkeep and communication have declined, with the HOA president holding that position for more than 20 years, while community common areas deteriorate and financial details remain unaccounted for.
- Boundary-Crossing behavior included a naked run at the annual fall campout, one male member receiving up to five texts a day and a tent request, while female members showing interest left him conflicted.
- The writer reports that gatherings feel different despite their respectfulness, losing long-term friendships has been hurtful, and the columnist's advice urges talking to uninvolved friends to grieve and accept the change.
- The columnist recommends acceptance and grieving, encouraging the writer and their husband to pursue couples counseling and individual therapy for boundary and relationship issues.
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Asking Eric: I’m losing HOA friends because I’m demanding information
Dear Eric: For the past 10 years, a core group in our Homeowners’ Association (HOA) has been very close.We get together on weekends, have meals together, attend HOA events and even go on vacations with each other. One member of our group is the HOA president and has held that position for more than 20 years.
·Harrisburg, United States
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Asking Eric: How do I deal with the loss of friends after HOA conflict?
Dear Eric: For the past 10 years, a core group in our Homeowners’ Association (HOA) has been very close. We get together on weekends, have meals together, attend HOA events, and even go on vacations with each other. One member of our group is the HOA president and has held that position for more than 20 years.
·Springfield, United States
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Total News Sources18
Leaning Left4Leaning Right0Center13Last UpdatedBias Distribution76% Center
Bias Distribution
- 76% of the sources are Center
76% Center
L 24%
C 76%
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