Most of us cope with heartbreak by ignoring our inboxes for a while. Gwyneth Paltrow very nearly ignored an Oscar. Well, not quite, of course. But life as you know it really does come to a close when you call it quits with someone, and while it’s almost always for the best, that doesn’t mean that it stings any less. You have to give yourself time to grieve, to experience the multitude of emotions that come from something so monumental, but it’s …