For my husband’s birthday this year, we road-tripped to our favorite little queer oasis in the Arkansas Ozarks. That may sound like an oxymoron, but Eureka Springs is the funkiest, spookiest and, yes, gayest little hamlet in the Bible Belt. Among the churches and haunted hotels, the town boasts a surprising number of queer-owned inns, bars and other businesses, including an impressive nightlife scene for a town of about 2,000. Its location, hem…