Sean Kirst: After 20 years, that 'Building Men' is still rolling becomes the whole life-changing point

Sean Kirst: After 20 years, that 'Building Men' is still rolling becomes the whole life-changing point

Ten years and more later, Muzamil Kaila can still call up the desperate and overwhelming feeling. “A lot of my childhood was spent lashing out,” he said Tuesday, recalling his own fury in middle school. At 22, he has the wisdom to look back and understand why. He is the Syracuse-born son of Sudanese immigrants. Kaila spoke Sudanese Arabic until he reached school age, and when he gradually forgot how to speak the language as a child — which happe…