By Meagan FischerI was honored to be invited to write a reader essay for Tangle a number of months ago, but I’ve been stuck on it for months. It normally wouldn’t be ‘good writing’ to start by sharing that, but in this case my trouble finding my voice for this audience connects to what I find it necessary to write about. My voice has been stuck in part because I haven’t felt safe to use it in so many situations. Some of those situations were per…