Miss Manners: Excluded from the condos’ cool kids club

Miss Manners: Cliquey condo community leaves me feeling so hurt when I don’t get invited to events

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I live in a very cliquey condo community, and I feel left out when I don’t get invited to the lunches or dinners out with the other ladies. And then I feel even more left out when someone who moved out of our community still gets included in these events.

Miss Manners: Your cliquey condo is not high school. If you want to make friends, just ask!

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I live in a very cliquey condo community, and I feel left out when I don’t get invited to the lunches or dinners out with the other ladies. And then I feel even more left out when someone who moved out of our community still gets included in these events.

Miss Manners: Excluded from the condos’ cool kids club

I feel even more left out when someone who moved out of our community still gets included in these events.

Miss Manners: How can I get invited to parties at my cliquey condo?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I live in a very cliquey condo community, and I feel left out when I don’t get invited to the lunches or dinners out with the other ladies. And then I feel even more left out when someone who moved out of our community still gets included in these events.

Miss Manners: How do I armor myself against these cliquey women?

Miss Manners: I need to not feel hurt when they exclude me.

Miss Manners: Excluded from the condo cool-kids club

Advice from Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin.