Folks who consider themselves lifestyle experts have been telling us for years to eat off the wedding china. Sit on the plastic-covered chairs. Don't save the “good stuff." Use it and enjoy it. To that I’d add: Put the albums in the living room. It’s been almost exactly five months since my mother died, and as the only person who is “up here,” it’s fallen to me to go through her things in preparation for selling the house. The divvying up of her…