William Shakespeare’s “Hamlet” asked a question which has circled through Western culture for more than four centuries. Since its 1603 publication, “To be, or not to be” has become one of the most quoted lines in the English language. Though Hamlet was considering suicide when he asked this, the more helpful question to alleviate his suffering would have been: How to be? Much like Hamlet, we tend to ask the wrong question, or we ask the question…