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Dr. Barton Goldsmith: From 'the personals' to the impersonal
Dr. Barton Goldsmith says newspaper personals felt more personal than online dating, and 23 responses helped him rethink how people met.
Dr. Barton Goldsmith recalls the era before online dating, when people used newspaper personal ads to find connections, representing a distinct social method for matchmaking before the digital age.
Observing friends who successfully met partners through classifieds, Goldsmith decided to try the method himself, seeking a genuine and clever approach to finding a match in print.
Goldsmith crafted an ad described as "Strong, Sensitive and Smart," aiming to attract interest from someone with humor; even a brief entry generated responses from various professionals.
He received several responses from professionals, including therapists, though Goldsmith noted that meeting people through classifieds required a sense of humor to navigate the process successfully.
Reflecting on his experiences, Goldsmith maintains that dating does not always lead to marriage, emphasizing the importance of maintaining personal standards while navigating the dating journey.