Dear Abby: We’ve only been together for four months, but he’s a kind, gentle man ... should I marry him?

Dear Abby: We’ve only been together for four months, but he’s a kind, gentle man ... should I marry him?

DEAR ABBY: I was married for 19 years. We are divorced and have no contact. Divorce was a good choice. Now, two years later, I am in love with a new man whom I’ll call “Grayson.” We have been together for four months, and things are going really well.