Dear Abby: I have cared for a sibling for 2 decades and need to stop. Should I feel guilty?

Dear Abby: Is it selfish to want a break from decades of caring for my sister?

DEAR ABBY: I’m a caregiver and have been since the age of 13. I’ll soon be 54. I have taken care of my sister since our parents passed nearly 20 years ago. I’m seriously considering placing her in a nursing home because she has started needing even more care, and I’m having some health issues myself.

Dear Abby: I have cared for a sibling for 2 decades and need to stop. Should I feel guilty?

DEAR ABBY: I’m a caregiver and have been since the age of 13. I’ll soon be 54. I have taken care of my sister since our parents passed nearly 20 years ago. I’m seriously considering placing her in a nursing home because she has started needing even more care, and I’m having some health issues myself.

Dear Abby: Should I feel guilty for considering placing my sister in a nursing home?

DEAR ABBY: I’m a caregiver and have been since the age of 13. I’ll soon be 54. I have taken care of my sister since our parents passed nearly 20 years ago. I’m seriously considering placing her in a nursing home because she has started needing even more care, and I’m having some health issues myself. We have brothers and sisters who promise to help care for her and give me a break, but they haven’t done it. I am married. Both my sons are grown a…