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Boyfriend asks partner to give up dog before moving in
The advice column says she can keep her dog and still build a home with Gary, and suggests 30 years of dog-sitting support.
A reader in their late 70s faces a relationship dilemma after partner Gary asked them to sell their house and move in together, though Gary wants the reader to give away their five-year-old dog.
The couple has been inseparable for two years after meeting on a hiking trip, and their families have integrated well; however, the transition to living together has created unexpected conflict over the pet.
Regarding pet care, the reader's small dog is five years old and house-trained, and they rely on a friend known for 30 years to care for the animal when traveling with Gary.
Advice columnist Eric Thomas suggests the reader avoid selling their home unless financially necessary, noting "his wants shouldn't supersede yours" regarding inclusion of the dog in their potential shared life.
Creating a shared home requires compromise and creative solutions; the reader could keep their house while spending more time at Gary's, allowing the couple to build their relationship without immediate loss.