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Asking Eric: Married Couple Are Soulmates but Have Stopped Having Sex

The husband says both partners lost desire and attraction, and the couple remains happily married despite five years without sex.

  • After more than four decades of marriage, a 70-year-old husband and his 64-year-old wife have mutually agreed to forgo sex for the past five years.
  • Both spouses cite weight struggles as contributing factors to their loss of physical desire and motivation for intimacy over time.
  • Despite the shift, the husband describes his wife as his 'forever soulmate' and confirms they remain happily married, though he admits to occasional dreams of past partners.
  • Relationship expert Eric clarified there is no standard 'normal' for relationships, noting that every couple changes in communication, shared interests, and physical connection throughout their time together.
  • Eric recommends the couple consult a couples therapist or sex therapist to discuss their feelings in a neutral environment, even if they do not seek to restart their sex life.
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Asking Eric: Married couple are soulmates but have stopped having sex

Advice columnist R. Eric Thomas answers his readers' questions in this May 23, 2026 edition of Asking Eric.

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Married couple soulmates, but no longer have sex

Dear Eric: I'm a 70-year-old husband in relatively good health married to a wonderful 64-year-old wife, mother and grandmother to our grandchildren. We just celebrated more than four decades together. She is my forever soulmate and I'm confident I'll always…

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The Washington Post broke the news on Saturday, May 23, 2026.
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