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Asking Eric: A year later, company’s cold retirement sendoff still stings

  • In a surprise sendoff, bosses placed a `happy retirement` card on the retiree's desk and walked away, and coworkers were shocked to find no gift inside, leaving the retiree confused.
  • After nearly 30 years at the family-owned realty company that began with four people, the retiree felt increasingly sidelined as the company grew into one of the community's largest firms.
  • One year later, the retiree says self-esteem remains deflated and nightmares persist, adding health issues including cognitive impairment and dependence on a husband for errands and appointments.
  • The retiree wonders whether to ask former employers `what was the deal?`, but syndicated columnist R. Eric Thomas advised such talks likely won't bring closure and suggested therapy-focused alternatives.
  • Seen broadly, the episode highlights how long-serving employees can be emotionally affected by minimal sendoffs, as the retiree's unhappiness coalesced around the retirement acknowledgment despite years of suffering amid the company's growth trajectory.
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Anchorage Daily NewsAnchorage Daily News
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Asking Eric: My workplace barely acknowledged my retirement after 30 years at the company

Advice from R. Eric Thomas.

·Anchorage, United States
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The OregonianThe Oregonian
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Asking Eric: After 30 years of service, bosses laid a ‘happy retirement’ card on my desk and walked away

Dear Eric: One year after my retirement I am still feeling confused and hurt for not receiving a “retirement gift” from my long-time employers. I worked for a family-owned realty company for nearly 30 years. I am not a family member.

·Portland, United States
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The Baltimore SunThe Baltimore Sun
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Asking Eric: After 30 years, company’s cold retirement sendoff stings

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·Baltimore, United States
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East Bay Times broke the news in Walnut Creek, United States on Sunday, December 14, 2025.
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