Partnership: Why clinging does not create closeness – and what makes true love

Clamping is not love! Real closeness needs emotional independence. How couples let go of old patterns, free themselves from neediness and create a deeper connection – without fear being rejected.

Falling in love with someone who is already emotionally engaged with another person is not only a common situation in novels or films: it is also a frequent phenomenon in real life that awakens intense emotions, blames, illusions and internal conflicts. From psychology, this type of bonds can be sustained by deep dynamics that go beyond love or desire: they speak of deficiencies, unconscious repetitions, and patterns of attachment rooted from ch…

Love can be the beginning and end of a relationship: people demonstrate it differently and that often leads to distancing.

Often it is the people in your closest circle who hurt you the most and who are hard to separate from. But why do we cling so much to friends, partners and family members when they are actually no longer good for us?