Have you ever had a friend who just loved to see you lose? If you ever needed them in the bad moments, they’d rush to your side and play the empath for a while; but once you’re winning, they’re throwing shade and making negative comments to bring you down. Having a friend or loved one who secretly wants to see you fail is one of the most disorienting experiences. You would never expect a loved one to prey on your downfall, but alas, many of our …