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Why Do so Many Women Apologize Even when They Haven't Done Anything Wrong?
Researchers found women viewed the same offenses as more severe and more often said they warranted apologies.
Research shows women apologize more frequently than men because they perceive a greater number of situations as offensive and deserving of an apology.
Schumann coauthored a 2010 study demonstrating the "threshold hypothesis," in which men report a higher threshold than women for what they deem offensive and require an apology.
Ally Hall, a 26-year-old executive assistant in Georgia, apologizes even when asking for help with tasks, fearing she is "adding to their stress."
Psychologist Stephen Hinshaw discovered a "triple bind" placed on girls: they must be compassionate and nurturing, competitive and driven, and desirable—all with little effort.
Women held only 29% of C-suite positions in 2025, unchanged from the prior year, as recent political trends in the United States continue fueling this assertion problem.
Gabriela Cryan, a 23-year-old girl who works in sales in Chamberee, Georgia, once apologized to her colleagues for taking a wrong coffee order to work, although the mistake had been from the cafeteria.