Off the Table - Dan Savage

Frances and his wife have been together for more than 40 years, and at the beginning of their relationship they did not stop touching. Then came three children and a series of health problems (along with the medication that accompanied them) that gradually undermined his wife’s libido. “His interest simply disappeared,” said Frances, 61, who asked not to be identified by his surname because of respect for his wife’s privacy. “What he used to be …

Off the Table - Dan Savage

I’ve been happily married to my wife for fifteen years. I’m a 54-year-old man, she’s a 55-year-old woman. While sex has never been our strongest suit, we’ve made the effort. But she now finds sex too painful and no longer wants to have intercourse. I’m on the larger side, which may or may not be … Read More » The post Off the Table appeared first on Dan Savage.