“Sometimes we believe the past to be happier. Sometimes the future to be more complete. But it is our own that excludes us from these. Perhaps this is why we try not to pay attention to the imperfection or unfinishedness of the moment in the intermittent vibrations of our present. Because we do not want to feel that the present moment is always aborted,” said István Szilágyi, a Hungarian writer from Romania who was born on October 10, 1938 and d…