It’s a dilemma that often confronts LGBTQ+ travelers: should they spend their rainbow dollars in red states where leaders are hostile to queer people? On Threads, travel writer Jared Ranahan recently posed the question that gay tourists can’t escape. Growing up in liberal Massachusetts, he understands the argument that queer people shouldn’t boost the economies of states with discriminatory laws. But he’s also visited Florida at least 30 times i…