For 55 years Doug Dunphy always brought his wife, Sally, flowers on their wedding anniversary. In 2009, he started trudging through snow every February to instead bring the flowers to Sally’s grave and sit with her after her death. This was the first year he wasn’t by her side. Dunphy, 78, was last seen in early January. His family presumes he is dead, but are left waiting for his remains to be found, his daughter Dawn Dunphy told the Bangor Dai…