US EditionDear Abby: I Found the Man of My Dreams, but There’s a Bedroom Issue
- A letter writer to Dear Abby states she found the man of her dreams but faces one problem in their relationship involving intimacy and sleeping arrangements.
- She experienced years of disappointment before finding him and fears hurting his feelings by addressing his bedroom performance, seeking guidance on how to communicate this discomfort.
- Dear Abby advises having a calm, relaxed conversation outside the bedroom about needs, warns that ego may get in the way, and stresses communication is easier when both are composed.
- The advice includes telling him gently the issue, suggesting a sex therapist referral, and quoting Abby: "If he loves you, he will go and learn something."
- The outcome implies improved understanding and relationship care if the couple communicates effectively and addresses boundaries like sleeping separately to respect comfort.
17 Articles
17 Articles
Chicago Sun Times
Dear Abby: Frank conversation hasn't paid off in the bedroom
DEAR ABBY: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn't doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn't stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don't want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he's just not getting the job done. — WORKING ON IT IN TENNESSEEDEAR WORKING: I will assume t…
Dear Abby: The man of my dreams needs some work in the bedroom
DEAR ABBY: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn’t doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn’t stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he’s just not getting the job done. -- WORKING ON IT IN TENNESSEE
Dear Abby: How do I tell my friend I don’t want to share a bed anymore?
Dear Abby: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn’t doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn’t stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he’s just not getting the job done.
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