MINOT, N.D. — As a young girl, Shay Craig looked with curiosity from her bunk bed perch on Sunday mornings, watching through her bedroom window families filing into, and out of, St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, just across the street from her home in Belvedere, Calif. “It was a very pretty church, and I was fascinated by the kids who carried these candles and sang these songs,” she said, describing the parish’s annual Lenten practice of “Burying …