Savage Love: Fear of Fairing

SAVAGE LOVE: Fear of Fairing

Is monogamy is ethically wrong if one partner wants something else? by Dan Savage I’m a 44-year-old woman with a history of childhood sexual trauma. I enjoy sex if I’m with a partner I feel very connected to emotionally, but I’ve never had an orgasm. Because of this I tend to rely on pleasing my partner during sex rather than my own arousal. It works OK for me at this point while I try to heal, which is taking forever. (I am in therapy.) I’ve be…

Savage Love: Fear of Fairing

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Fear of Fairing - Dan Savage

I’m a 44-year-old woman with a history of childhood sexual trauma. I enjoy sex if I’m with a partner I feel very connected to emotionally, but I’ve never had an orgasm. Because of this I tend to rely on pleasing my partner during sex rather than my own arousal. It works OK for me at … Read More » The post Fear of Fairing appeared first on Dan Savage.