Dear Abby: I Walked in on My Husband Having Sex with My Sister - and Kept It a Secret
- The author’s former spouse passed away at his residence three months prior, after they had been divorced for thirty years, leaving behind two children and four grandchildren.
- The author left the ex-husband decades earlier after walking in on him having sex with her older sister, which led to bitterness and his refusal to forgive her.
- For many years, he expressed resentment toward our children, declined to participate in important gatherings, and held me responsible for leaving him and causing difficulties.
- The speaker wishes she had told him the truth before his death, but acknowledges that it is too late and that his death has turned her world upside down.
- The situation illustrates that infidelity often prevents couples from moving beyond issues, and that withholding difficult truths can cause ongoing pain and turmoil.
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Ex-wife has held a secret for three decades
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four…
Dear Abby: Ex-husband thought he took affair with my sister to his grave, but I’ve always known
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.
Dear Abby: I walked in on my husband having sex with my sister, but I never told him that’s why I left him
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.
Dear Abby: Should I confront my sister for sleeping with my now dead ex-husband?
Dear Abby: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren.
Dear Abby: I walked in on my husband having sex with my sister - and kept it a secret
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.
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