Dear Abby: I Walked in on My Husband Having Sex with My Sister - and Kept It a Secret
HILLSBOROUGH COUNTY, NEW HAMPSHIRE, JUN 17 – Ex-wife reveals trauma and infidelity secret after ex-husband's death, describing abuse and family betrayal that shaped three decades of silence and fear, including a rape by a fellow officer.
- The author’s former spouse passed away at his residence about three months ago, after they had been separated for three decades.
- The author divorced him after walking in on him having sex with her older sister, which he never forgave and caused long-standing bitterness.
- Over an extended period, he expressed deep resentment to their children, declined to participate in special occasions, and blamed the author for ending their marriage.
- The author expresses regret about not speaking to him while he was still alive, but now feels that opportunity has passed since his death has deeply affected her life.
- The letter suggests that although some couples can overcome cheating, a significant number cannot, and being honest about the situation might help lessen emotional distress.
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Ex-wife has held a secret for three decades
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four…

Dear Abby: Ex-wife has held a secret for three decades
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.The truth is, I left a…
Dear Abby: Ex-husband thought he took affair with my sister to his grave, but I’ve always known
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.
Dear Abby: I walked in on my husband having sex with my sister, but I never told him that’s why I left him
DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30 years before his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren. For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused to attend special events because I left him. When there were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my fault because I had left.
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