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Dear Abby: I’m Falling for My Co-Worker but There’s a Big Age Gap

An anonymous message claiming the husband has Asperger's has caused anxiety and distrust in the newlywed, who now considers asking him for an assessment.

  • Recently, a newlywed woman received an anonymous message claiming her husband has Asperger's, despite telling only close friends and family about their two months marriage.
  • Having suspected her husband has Asperger's, the writer finds the claim deeply distressing amid her earlier relationship with a narcissist and her mother’s recent death from cancer.
  • Now, she doubts she can trust him and says she wants to ask her husband for assessment for Asperger's after reading reliable online resources first.
  • The columnist cautioned that anonymous writers usually aim to cause trouble and said this need not destroy the marriage, suggesting contacting the Association for Autism and Neurodiversity.
  • Advocates point out that many successful people are on the autism spectrum and that disclosure varies, with denial or lack of self-awareness as a factor.
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The Berkshire EagleThe Berkshire Eagle
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Message about new husband arrives anonymously

DEAR ABBY: I've been married to my husband for two months. I haven't told anyone I'm married except my close friends and family. Someone recently messaged me about my husband, stating that he has Asperger's. They know my name and…

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Charleston Gazette-Mail broke the news in Charleston, United States on Tuesday, November 25, 2025.
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