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Dear Abby: I Keep Finding Excuses to Stay Away From Church

A woman struggles with guilt over not attending church while maintaining personal faith, citing upbringing and life events as reasons for her 15-year absence.

  • A twice-divorced woman asks if skipping local church is a sin, saying she regularly attended until 15 years ago and went once about six weeks ago but hasn’t returned.
  • Raised by two deeply religious parents who took her every Sunday, she later cared for a dying father and dated a man she spent Sundays with, drifting from church.
  • Dear Abby advised not to force church attendance unless needed and added that daily devotion may suffice, while noting some denominations consider skipping a sin and people attend for varied reasons.
  • Abby recommended setting a date and sticking to it, but immediate barriers include excuses like sleeping in, cats, and work fatigue.
  • The syndicated Dear Abby column, written by Abigail Van Buren and founded by Pauline Phillips, highlights a common tension between organized worship and private devotions.
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Woman resists her own attempts to go to church

DEAR ABBY: I'm a twice-divorced woman who has no children. I was raised by two deeply religious parents (now deceased) who attended church every Sunday and took me along. I regularly attended church until 15 years ago. At that time,…

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Charleston Gazette-Mail broke the news in Charleston, United States on Tuesday, December 9, 2025.
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