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Asking Eric: My Wife Promised to Help when We Moved to a Large Property but I Do the Lion’s Share of Chores

Six years ago, they left city life to buy an acreage after long discussions, and the 47-year-old husband says he handles most outdoor work while his 44-year-old wife barely helps.
His wife had been enthusiastic and assured she'd help, but the husband reports she now focuses on internet games and streaming instead of meeting maintenance expectations.
Seeking guidance, the husband reports he asks `What else can I do to get her moving?`, but the wife often shuts down and plays online games.
The husband reports worsening health from managing nearly all tasks himself, and R. Eric Thomas calls the acreage `an albatross`, urging a neutral third party and marriage counseling.
The columnist warns the husband may not change his wife and suggests communication strategies, including asking `Is this home still the right place for us?` to clarify next steps.

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