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Asking Eric: How do we cut off financial support for 37-year-old who can’t seem to support herself?

Parents worry about homelessness risk for their 37-year-old daughter with bipolar disorder after years of financial support; she works sporadically and her boyfriend provides no financial help.

  • A Worried Mom asked, 'When and how should we cut her off?' about her 37-year-old daughter who has never fully supported herself, according to her letter to R. Eric Thomas.
  • The daughter holds a degree but struggles with steady employment, losing jobs after about a year; she has bipolar disorder, relies on parental support, and lives with a younger boyfriend who does not help financially while working as a hostess at a high-end restaurant.
  • R. Eric Thomas advised to approach the discussion from a logistical point of view, advocate for what you want, wait until after the holiday, and focus goals on the parents' finances for next year.
  • The parents fear she will fall apart and become homeless after years of discussions, while the columnist warned cutting support varies by goals and financial changes may accelerate the process.
  • Talk to her and her medical team about strategies for independent living and enlist the care team's guidance on resources and a social safety net while respecting her autonomy and financial goals.
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Helena Independent RecordHelena Independent Record
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Parents struggle with cutting off dependent daughter

Dear Eric: My daughter will be 37 in a month but has never been able to completely support herself. She has a degree from a good university but is unable to keep a job for more than a year or…

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Anchorage Daily NewsAnchorage Daily News
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Asking Eric: We’re struggling with cutting off our financially dependent adult daughter

Advice from R. Eric Thomas.

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Asking Eric: Parents struggle with cutting off financially dependent daughter

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The Baltimore Sun broke the news in Baltimore, United States on Thursday, December 11, 2025.
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