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Dear Abby: Daughter Consistently Relies on Family to Bail Her Out

Patti’s father says she keeps rejecting financial counseling and spending on luxuries, while family support has not stopped her debt cycle.

  • A father writing to Dear Abby reports his 43-year-old daughter, Patti, is constantly in financial difficulties and periodically asks family members for money.
  • She filed for bankruptcy 20 years ago after amassing huge credit card debt and subsequently failed the state exam to become a nurse practitioner.
  • Their two school-age daughters attend private school while the father noted a pattern of frivolous spending including plastic surgeries, fancy parties, and clothes.
  • Patti rejected offers to review her finances and recently refused free financial counseling, reacting with nasty, resentful emails while his ex-wife stonewalls discussion of her difficulties.
  • Abigail Van Buren advises the father to 'close the Bank of Daddy,' stating she will not stand on her own two feet until she is forced to.
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Dear Abby: Daughter consistently relies on family to bail her out

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TimesDaily broke the news in on Saturday, April 11, 2026.
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